via Daily Prompt: Conversation
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We are in the “e generation” where most of our conversations happen the “e” way.
We converse, with our many counterparts, all around the world, using the various electronic gadgets, we have access to. Phones, which were once meant only as a means of communication, have today become a “smart phone”, in the real sense, as it has made us “dumb”slaves and almost taken control of our lives.
“Tablets”, which were once meant to be medicinal tablets, have now become a gadget, one for each member of the family, which takes care of entire entertainment needs of the family from games to movies to epics to serials.. I could go on about the various gadgets available today and write more about it.
The point of irony is,
Conversations happen today, when you are driving down alone in a car. Hands free, wireless bluetooth headphones, and you are on. When I look at people talking thus, I really find it funny. No one by your side, you are bringing out all expressions of anger, frustration…trying to convince or prove a point to the person at the other end. Or you are smiling to yourself. When you do actually have a person sitting beside you on a drive, the drive is pretty much silent with a backgound music score for company, and a few statements around that.
Conversations happen today, on various chats and applications. There is no open communication. The FYIs, LOLs ,ROFLs, Tc, TTYLs, have hijacked our language at the EOD. The youngsters of today, talk in such lingo, even at home. Mom, you know what, A big LOL happened in school today !!
The meaning of having a decent communication with your neighbor or a meaningful conversation with family, visiting family and friends, has got washed away in the wave of the “e generation”.
So true! I miss the times when actual conversation happened rather than today’s virtual connect!
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Yep.. Very true..The days where we actually connected and communicated effortlessly 👍
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thought provoking article about the times to roll..Conveying, sensing and understanding emotions of the other may soon be beyond human reach…
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Thanks karthik..
Well said, karthik..Touch , feel, sense may all soon become virtual reality..
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that is so true….dictionaries are growing in size….but the words have become less….that is the reason that these kids need to undertake special training classes….when it comes to a language qualification test….
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Ha ha, very true.. 🙂
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True! Real and meaningful conversations have become a rare thing.
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Very sad, but unfortunately, true.
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You are right. Today it is hard to converse with a neighbor even for a few minutes as each one soon gets glued to their gadget.
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Exactly..It’s saddening to see this. Young kids no more enjoy creating, conversing or playing..A little free time and they are busy staring into gadgets, and the same holds good for adults too..
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Many adults are more addicted than young people.
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Yes, true..
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Happy New Year!
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Thank you so much. Wishing you a happy and peaceful new year!!
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Thank you!
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This is so true and it’s a common sight these days where people sitting together doing breakfast or dinner will be gazing at there mobiles and not each other. Birthdays and festivals all are celebrated online, even if one has to greet a person sitting beside him/her, they would first prefer to greet on social media. Pics again are click for posting on social media nad not for memories. Lives these days are so much ruled and guided by this “e-phobia” taht the true bonding of relations is fading away fast in this digital age.
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Yes, akanksha..Sad but true..This is the price we are paying in the name of development 😦
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You’ve raised such a pertinent point here. We don’t converse anymore like we should. We only do timepass with people in the name of conversations when our gadgets fil to keep us engaged. Its sad to see that in the age of social media connectivity, we are losing sight of what’s ‘social’. Fabulous read!
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I really hope, people realize and value people.
Hope you are doing good…
Thanks pradita !!
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I hope so too. Thanks a lot Deepika. I’m doing well. I hope you are too 😊
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Yes, thank you !! Good day and have a great weekend ☺️
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Thanks Deepika and wish you the same 😊
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Nothing is comparable to a good face-to-face chat.
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Agree 👍
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I am today a Tragic Hero because of that reason may be.
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Oh oh ..That’s tragic…Glad you realize the reason…Hope you’ll soon be able to become a superhero ☺️
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Ha ha ha…I am now a superhero I feel. Sharing my experience with such a wonderful community of bloggers.
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Awesome !! You should then change the name of your blog to Another super hero. ☺️
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Not now not now, thanks for suggesting by the way😉😉
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When I was living in Mumbai, few of my close friends and me made it a point to meet every second Saturday afternoon. The venue was almost always my place. The rules were very simple — everyone bring snacks and switch off or keep the phone in silent. We will spend the afternoon talking, listening to music, watching a movie, or playing some board games. But mostly it was talk talk talk and it was so much fun! I am slowly trying to re-create this in my current city of residence. Hopefully it will happen. 🙂 Btw, yours is the second post am stumbling upon today that brought back memories of my Mumbai days. So, thank you for that!
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Above all, Deepika, this e-world has left us with no time and no privacy at all what will the mobile beeping leaving us in an incurable state of Fear Of Missing Out.
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