From the day I was born and joined my large family of people on this planet, I have grown to be, who I am today. To reach this stage in life, I have had to relocate umpteen times, physically, emotionally, maturity wise, experience wise and otherwise.
From childhood reveries, I had to relocate my base to being a studious student, I quite didn’t fit into it so easily, all the same, that was the only choice available.
Growing up from being a student to a teenager was a different ballgame. Had envisioned the world from the protected environs of home. Never imagined, anything bad or detrimental to people or the world. But slowly things changed..broadening the spheres of imaginations by the happenings and events around the world, got to learn that all is not hunky dory.
Physically and emotionally relocated after marriage, being severed from my home for so many years, was not easy. And I actually did learn that marriage is an institution, which requires me to emotionally relocate my priorities from time to time.
Motherhood, was yet another such instance. The huge responsibility landing on my shoulders, was definitely a stepping stone to my growth. I relocated and relived my life again, along with my children and still continue doing so everyday. I do have my share of disagreements with my kiddos, but I do try to pack my emotional baggage at the end of day, dump it in a trash can and start afresh the next morning, not as effortless as it sounds, but yes, being aware and cleaning up gives a lot of peace. This makes a tiny shift in me each day and I am, actually relocating inch by inch to meet a new “ME” every day, and am still growing !!
Such a wonderful read and such true words, Deepika. Great post.
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Thanks for your kind words, kamal 😇
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Welcome Deepika.
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So very correct.. relocating ur own being every single day.. from childhood to the time our life end..a woman seems to be doing this more often..
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Glad you could connect with it.
Thank you shilpa ☺️
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Hugs to you. Stay blessed my dear..
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I am not even married yet or have children. I already find change to difficult. I can only imagine how difficult it must have been for you and how strong you have to be deal with it.
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Experiences make us strong and adaptable to change. And when it’s the question of someone we love dearly, we give up a whole lot of ego and things…
Thanks for stopping by and saying such kind words. ☺️☺️
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Beautiful summarized diary….relocating is more like a heat treatment….isn’t it….?
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Hmmm…Yes, you could definitely compare the two …
Thank you SS !!
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I absolutely loved this heartfelt post and the way you used the word relocate. I so agree with you about having to relocate even our emotional priorities that too repeatedly …sometimes even losing a sense of self. You give a very positive conclusion in how you remedy this and arrive Home of Me on a daily basis.
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Am glad, I’m not the only one in this journey and have such good souls like you for company. Glad you could connect with it .
Thank you so much pragalbha 😇
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You are most welcome, Deepika.
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Oh, we relocate at every phase of life, to circumstances, places, emotions and situations. It calls for a great amount of change in our life style at times. Very well written post Deepika.
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Thank you Radhika 😇
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nice thoughts 🙂
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Thank you so much Hassan !!
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My pleasure 🙂
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You have given ‘Relocation’ a new definition Deepika, never have thought that this word can hold this much wisdom.
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Glad you could connect with it. Thank you !!
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Your most welcome, Deepika.
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