Parenting in the current generation is a very challenging task due to varied reasons, and I’m sure most of you will agree to this. Am not getting into the nitty gritty of why it’s challenging..for every parent would have dealt with custom made situations.
Ups and downs have been present throughout my parenting career. Childhood tantrums, teenage rage, rows, arguments, discussions, oh! plenty of situations to prick the full blown parenting balloon – BOOM, and I am down to earth, totally deflated.
Moments like these, often set my brain thinking, Am I good enough as a parent ?? I criticize, I inquire, to find for the deep insecurities hidden within, to find the evidences to support my stance, to present my case before the judge residing in my court room. The proceedings begin…I start presenting by defending, as a defense attorney..justifying and arguing to prove myself right. After all, I have to win the case.
After the emotional turmoil has settled down, the mother in me, comes forward to present her stance as the public prosecutor…Is all this turmoil worth it? whom are you fighting against and why? What will you gain by winning this case? It’s your child. Even if you prove yourself right, you finally end up losing the case, as the child is a mere extension of you. Is this argument, battle really so important in the long run? If not, let it go. Choose and win the battles which matter.
After, this motherly dose of arguments, happens the out of court settlement – Truce is proclaimed, victory is ours 🙂
No court has ever been able to give a fair verdict in the case of Parent Vs Child. Well presented case. Hope you enjoy this journey and feel happy when you look back.🙂
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Yes Radhika. Really hope so. Thank you 😃
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well said Deepika
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Thank you Daneel 😃
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Welcome Deepika
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🙂 so true …parenting teaches the most profound lessons.
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yes,parenting is one of the most efficient teachers in lofe, varied exposure and very practical.
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This is one case that is so very well and practically expressed. All the fuss and the battle with oneself is it not? Cannot agree with you more on this one, Deepika!
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Yes, very much a part of life, no escaping from this one …
Thank you dear !
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My pleasure, Deepika!
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